What to Do Before First Period: Complete Guide for Parents & Girls

The first period — also known as menarche — is an important milestone in a girl’s life. Knowing what to do before first period helps parents prepare their daughter physically, emotionally, and mentally, preventing fear and confusion.

This doctor-reviewed guide by Dr. Nitasha Gupta, Consultant Gynecologist, explains early puberty signs, first period preparation, hygiene education, and when medical advice is needed.

Quick reassurance: Every girl’s body develops at its own pace. There is no “perfect age” for the first period.

At What Age Do Girls Usually Get Their First Period?

Most girls get their first period between ages 9 and 14.

Timing depends on:

• Genetics
• Nutrition
• Body weight
• Overall health
• Environmental exposure

Early or late periods are often normal — but extreme variations may require medical evaluation.

Early Signs That First Period Is Coming Soon

Puberty signs may appear months or even years before menarche.

Common early indicators:

• Breast development (1–2 years before periods)
• White or pale yellow vaginal discharge
• Sudden height growth (growth spurt)
• Underarm and pubic hair growth
• Body odor or oily skin
• Mild acne
• Mood swings or emotional sensitivity

These signs indicate menstruation may begin within the near future.

What Parents Should Do Before First Period

Preparing early reduces fear and builds confidence.

Start Conversations Early

Explain menstruation before it happens so it doesn’t feel frightening.

Normalize Periods

Avoid secrecy, shame, or fear-based messaging. Present periods as natural and healthy.

Teach Hygiene Basics

Educate about:

• Sanitary pads
• Changing frequency
• Proper disposal
• Hand hygiene

Prepare a School Emergency Kit

Include:

• Sanitary pad
• Extra underwear
• Wipes or tissues
• Small pouch

Reassure Emotional Changes

Mood swings are hormonal and temporary — reassurance matters.

What Girls Should Know Before Their First Period

Education builds body confidence.

Girls should understand:

• Periods are a normal part of growing up
• Bleeding lasts ~3–7 days
• Mild cramps or back pain can occur
• Bathing and hygiene are safe
• School and sports can continue
• Periods do not mean illness or weakness

Common Concerns Parents Ask

Will periods be regular from the start?

No. Irregular cycles are common during the first 1–2 years as hormones stabilize.

Is heavy bleeding normal in first periods?

Flow varies — but soaking pads every hour is not normal and needs medical advice.

When Should Parents Consult a Doctor?

Seek gynecological guidance if:

• No period by age 15
• Periods begin before age 8
• Severe pain affects school life
• Very heavy bleeding occurs
• Periods last unusually long

Early medical evaluation helps prevent future menstrual or hormonal complications.

For adolescent menstrual guidance, parents can consult Dr. Nitasha Gupta, who provides puberty counselling and menstrual health support.

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Internal educational linking improves awareness and preventive care.

Trusted Medical Sources

For global menstrual health standards:

• World Health Organization (WHO)
• American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG)
• NIH – Puberty & Adolescent Health

These organizations provide evidence-based puberty and menstrual health guidelines.

Need Expert Guidance?

If you’re concerned about:

• Early puberty
• Delayed periods
• Severe menstrual pain
• Hormonal symptoms

Book a consultation with Dr. Nitasha Gupta for personalized adolescent gynecology guidance.

Consultations available at:

Kore Fertility

Labella Cosgyn

FAQs

Is it normal to feel scared before first period?

Yes. Fear usually comes from lack of information. Education and reassurance help greatly.

Should girls see a gynecologist before first period?

Not routinely — unless there are signs of early puberty or medical concerns.

Can stress delay first periods?

Yes. Emotional stress, illness, or undernutrition can delay menstruation.

Final Takeaway

Understanding what to do before first period helps parents and girls navigate this milestone confidently.

With:

• Early education
• Hygiene awareness
• Emotional reassurance
• Medical guidance when needed

Menarche becomes a positive, empowering transition rather than a stressful one.